How did I get here?
Why do I feel this way?
Why is this so unbelievably hard?
Why can’t I just MOVE ON? LET IT GO?
You have treated me for months now as if I was an enemy. As if I was a stranger, a nobody, and making me feel you have forgotten all that we had. I think about it everyday. Multiple times. Its pathetic. Its sad. I can’t stop.
For the first 4 months after breaking up I thought I was fine. In my head and in my heart I felt I had made the right decision. That is the honest truth.
But something has been eating at me for the last 3 months. It’s like I am just now starting to really deal with the breakup. Questioning it, replaying it, over analyzing it. I cant stop.
I can make a list of 25 things that were not great about our relationship, things that drove me to ultimately end it. I don’t know that any of those things have actually changed, but I do know, that regardless of that list, I would give anything to spend time with you again. I cant stop.
What makes me most angry at myself is the fact that I know, despite your hurtful actions and neglect, if you were to walk back into my life for any reason, I would run straight for you. I cant stop.
You make me so angry and have hurt me so much I want to scream and cry almost everyday.
But I don’t think I have ever stopped loving you.
Do I miss you? Or do I miss what we had?
Could it ever work again? Would the same problems still be there?
Are you a different person now? Am I a different person now?
I still think about what our life would be like together. When I think about my wedding, it’s still you standing at the end of the isle.
I broke your heart.
Now you are breaking mine.
Did I screw up? Or are these your true colors and I should be thankful I ended it when I did.
I Re-read the emails I have left dealing with the breakup –It’s hard to remember how I even felt when all that happened, because I am conflicted about whether or not I still feel that way
Do I want you back? I change my mind 100 times a day.
I just want to talk to you. I want to understand. I want answers and explanations.
I Have a date tonight – 1st one since we broke up. First boy I have talked to since we broke up (You have had a girlfriend for months now) and already all I can think about is you. He is not you.
You saw Mike at court yesterday and wouldn’t speak to him. Why? Why can’t you be polite? Why cant you respond to me emails a simple “yes, its in the mail?” It infuriates me.
I see you driving now every time I go to pick Tinley up from daycare. Do you live down south now? Does your GF live down south? Do you see me driving or am I just psycho?
It hurts my heart more than you will ever know that deep down I worry you truly will never speak to me again. What did I do? Was it the email about not communicating with me? Was it our conversation around Halloween?
You were respectful and polite for so long – where did it go wrong? You offered to help me move in August, you offered to get us into the fair for free in September, you responded to my dream email that “ I was a great person and that hopefully one day we could be friends”…WTF happened?!?!!?!?!?!?!?!
What has caused me to suddenly over the past few months become overwhelmed with feelings of missing you, needing you, wanting you? I do. I so do.
I feel like you are acting so immature. Any normal girl would kick thoughts of you to the curb in a heartbeat.
I envision what I would say to myself if I was on the outside looking in – it would go something like this – “LET GO! HES NOT WORTH IT, ITS BEEN 8 MONTHS, 8 MONTHS TOO LONG, YOU ARE SO MUCH BETTER THAN THIS, WHY CANT YOU SEE THAT???”
Right now I cant.